What Makes Me Happy!!!

"Life is full of pain, boring and hazardous. There aren't any single things that make me happy. Every day I wake up in the morning and think that I will find some sunshine. As I am unlucky, there is no hope for me. Finally, I decide to commit suicide." said Joye Senbarg, sixteen years old teen girl who lived in California in the United States.

 When I met with Joye, she made me very melancholic. She said that she cut off a very poor mark in English. Her parents wrangled in every night and her father sometimes beaten her mother that made her sorrow. And another thing that she could not think that her boyfriend cheated with her and went away. As a result, she could not mix with others and would like to stay alone. All these made her life to the hell, she couldn't tolerate it anymore.

When I was thinking about Joye, I find that most people all over the world suffer from an extreme level of anxiety such as depression, loneliness, relationship problems, suicidal thoughts, grief, drug addiction, as well as learning disabilities. So, I had suggested considering five things before she went away. Here I would like to share those things that will help you to feel better.  

1. Do what you like

Is there any better to work just like a bull staff? Going to the office at 9 am, coming back at 5 pm, facing a lot of pressure at the office where there is no room to breathe.

If the situation is that, why do you hold the job that you mostly unlike? Why don't you change that? Why don't you start a new one? 

If you are doing the job that you have no interest, it will bore you, be broken you and probably destroy you. So, it is a perfect time, you should stop working, take a long breathe and follow your passion. It really will be better for you. If you do not find your passion, my advice is: try, try and try everything. One day you must find one that you really love.

2. Self-trust

Believing is not just a word, it is a hidden source of power. It is driven by the human race from the day when the Almighty God creates the human being. The theologists are strongly bold the word. 

Believing is the head chemist of the human brain. When it is bonding with the thought, it creates a powerful magmatic effect and spiritual vibration that transforms the positive signal into the brain. And then the brain transmits a signal to shape the equivalent objects. 

So, if you believe in your incredible power, you can do everything that you want to do. The whole earth will help you to get things. 

3. Live to love thyself

Sometime, Maybe the most unexpected thing will happen to you. You won't, but it will happen in there own way. Sometime you will fail, you will lose to control your life cycle, you will give up hope. But remember that everything happens for a reason that will be better for you in the long run.

So, don't give up, love yourself, stay with lives. One day, it will bring some sunshine and enlighten your mind. 

4. Express yourself

You may be thinking, you are ugly. Your skin is not shinning,  you have a dark spot, your hair is knit and so on. But the real fact is you always are unique. There is no one like you. You have a unique genetic code that only symbolizes yourself.

Don't be afraid of going outside for the ray sunlight. It won't burn your skin but give you some essential vitamins that are good for your health.

On the other hand, if you can't sing, don't worry, you just shut out loudly. You don't need to know what people are saying. You just express yourself. Every day, try to do something new, try to build a new relationship and try to upgrade you.

5. Belong with FnF

You will feel so lonely as a cloud when you can't find someone beside you. It really woe your feeling. As a human being, we need someone, someone who really feels you understand you, inspires you, stays beside you and cares for you. They are no one but your family and friends. 

Sometimes, it seems that you are alone,  your family and friends are going against you, they don't scare you. But at the end of the day, they are your best wishers, they pray for you and choose the best things for you. So, don't ignore them, belong with them and try to make them feel happy.

Being happy is not rocket science. It is plain and simple. Do you remember the day when you learned to ride a bicycle for the first time? Doesn't it bring a smile on your face? 

In conclusion, you may make an observation on your own self and find out your comfort zone. And at the end of a day, keep yourself at the top priority and believe in your existence that exactly Anna did.